Curious about what kind of sex parties you can attend in the UK? Well, listen up!
Release your inhibitions and act out your wildest fantasies with our London swingers guide. 

From collectives which prioritise women and non-binary people, this list gives you what we think are the best erotic adult swinging establishments in town. Big name parties with a decade-spanning legacy, here are all the best places to explore your kinks and desires across the country.

Killing Kittens

It is safe to assume that Killing Kittens (KK) is probably the most popular sex party event around today. Launched in 2005 by Emma Sayle, it boasts over 100,000 male and female members. Operating across three major cities - London, Manchester and Los Angeles. 

They vet their potential members through an application process, requiring an image and a brief bio before accepting your membership. Focussing mainly on female pleasure and created predominantly for women - Men are generally not allowed to approach first, so women have all the control. We love that!

KK launched virtual house parties throughout Covid-19 with Zoom calls, to satisfy its large following of pleasure-seekers. This also included kittens watching each other while playing out their their sexual fantasies. And for those who need a little help with their sex lives, their virtual workshops with masterclasses were a welcome addition. Massage Her will soon be teaming up with KK to join in with the fun, demonstrating the power of tantric massage in the bedroom.

Born in 2016, Klub Verboten provides a safe space for self-expression. Stepping away from the often non-consensual and intimidating culture of everyday night-life. At the heart of Verboten’s ethos, lies the security and the safety of human interactions that all too often seem to be ignored. We champion the welfare of women in this world of sexual self-expression and freedom to be who you are without the fear of judgement and discrimination.

This one is different from the usual. One Night Parties’ emphasis is on femininity-first. Their ethos is to provide women and non binary people with a safe space in a chic dungeon. Their parties allow women to meet other like minded women and express themselves and be their natural selves freely. Forging friendships without feeling pressured to engage in sex or act a certain way. Welcoming women of all ages, sizes, sexualities and backgrounds. We love the idea of breaking free from the normal sex scene. One Night Parties defies the usual sex party domain, with heavy dominant males and supposedly submissive women.

If you fancy an escape from the norm with a nice cup of tea, then Crossbreed may be the place for you - as long as you like your tea in a fetish-furnished playroom, made for sexual exploration. Founded by Kiwi, Dj and producer (real name Alex Warren). With three separate rooms, and one of them being a wellness sanctuary, and a dance floor to get your grooves on - step out of the realm of social conformity and get into your latex, leather, PVC and bondage wear - everyone is welcome, as long as you embrace your kink-positive rave side.

As the world's biggest monthly fetish club, the Torture Garden (TG) in London, attracts up to 2,500 attendees. Started back in 1990, this sex party is not for the faint-hearted. If you’re searching for an experience far beyond what would be referred to as the norm, TG is probably going to be your type of place. Founded by David Wood and Alan Pelling, seeking to fulfil the lack of edgy, radical alternative clubs. Open to all gender identities and sexual orientations, if you can’t let your hair down here, you’re pretty much fucked.

Exclusively geared for women, Skirt Club founded by Geneviève LeJeune in 2014, is specifically aimed at bi-curious and bisexual women. A safe space to be free to express and exist as your true authentic self, without judgement. Female empowerment is at the forefront of the ethos and culture of this space.

Currently hosting weekly online member events where you can share experiences, ask questions, flirt and indulge in raunchy hedonism. The only rules are: no photography, no recording, and definitely no men.

Based in West Bromwich in the Midlands, and one of the UK’s longest running sex parties Xtasia is well established. Describing itself as “the UK’s leading adult sexual entertainment venue”. Hosting both fetish and swingers events every week, and home of DPraved, and Cirque de Chaos. Also boasting a cinema room, and hotel rooms. If you’re in pursuit of pleasure, this could be just the place to have a hedonistic fun night out in the Midlands.

This is a Birmingham based event open to all. The Private Club hosting six weekly sex parties for sexually liberated singles and couples. You can expect glory holes, greedy girl parties and gangbangs with an outdoor playspace and their own "Fake Taxi”.

New members must make at least four visits before being accepted.